Have You Ever

I believe I was tagged with this meme, but can't seem to find from the comments from whom. Sorry, but I'll link you up as soon as I find the comments or your meme's with my name on it.



1. Have you ever been on TV?Yes when I was a kids in the Flinstones Kiddie Show, and I think on one of the fashion show I did too.

2. Have you ever sung in public? Yes, a lot of times. Several presentations in school when I was a kid. I can still remember that it one song was "Anak ng Pasig" by Geneva.. haha. Then again, in a beauty pagent in High-school which I won 1st place. I also joined our college Singing Contest back in 2000 and I won it too. I also sang in one of the bars in Malate when I was on a date and the crowd loved it that they asked me to sing a 2nd song. I also sang a duet with Freestyle in another bar in Ortigas. Oh, and also in weddings, I think 3 or 4 times already, not to mention the countless KTV that I've been to with friends and family. Ok, I know.. sorry but we love to sing, and I can sort of say that I sing well, actually the whole family does. We are a family of singers, a cousin was teaching voice lessons and another cousin joined Bagong Kampeon, won a lot of times but lost when he sang against Regine Velasquez.

3. Have you ever dyed your hair blond? Nope.

4. Have you ever eaten frogs' legs? I think so, I also tried goat, dog, and snake. Hey, most of the time I got tricked to it ok?

5. Have you ever received a present that you really hated?Yes,of course I never let the giver know about, saddly it just gathers dust at home.

6. Have you ever walked into a lamp post? nope, but I once fell in a Sewer Manhole, while reading a book, thankfully only one leg slipped in and I didn't fell right into it. I was able to got up again but the left scars on my right leg.

7. Have you ever cooked a meal by yourself for more than 15 people? Yes, a lot of times. My family loves celebrations. Every year I am the designated cook, only because my mom got too tired doing it. She helps me sometimes. But yes, I cook during Birthdays, Christmas, New Years.

8. Have you ever fallen or stumbled in front of others? Yes... see number 6.

9. Have you ever done volunteer work? Yes, a lot of times, I always volunteer, on a school project, helping a friend to finish a plate, taking somebody elses responsibility, even charity works. We used to go to a fave institution every Dec.27 to give food and toys to kids.

Now, I'm Tagging Niko, Eds, Jes , Chris and Enchie

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Birthday Wishlist tag

I got this tag from Chris and Eds, thanks gals.

I'll be 28th on August. I usually spend my birthday as little J's birthday too.

Rules Of The Tag:

1. Make a list of what you want on your birthday
2. The list should be 10 numbers
3. Post the image of this award in your posting
4. Give it to 10 friends of yours.

Here's my list:
1. I wish to have a stable financial income, may it be as employed or as a self proclaimed "do it yourself income maker"
2. I wish for good health for me, little J and my whole family.
3. I wish to have peace of mind and pretty much contented of what the Lord gives me.
4. I wish that my "self proclaimed business venture" will actually make money enough for me and little J's comfortable lifestyle.
5. I wish to talk to little J's father, talk about our dreams for little J. He is not with us, nor see's little J anymore, but I'm sure, even if he is away he still have dreams for little J. I have my own too, it doesn't necessarily means he is part of it.
6. I wish to have the luxury of be a WHAM and spend more time with waht matters most like little J, family, and friends.
7. I wish for architectural projects. After last nights dinner with my college friends, I realized that I should not let go of my own dreams of being a succeful architec only because I became a mom. I turned away from my profession a few years ago, because of a failed buisness venture with a not-worthy buisness partner. The trauma made me turn away from my career.
8. I wish to find real happiness, may it be on a new found love, a closer relationship to God, or just stopping being so -negative- about everything. As you can see, I don't really know why I am not happy. Hopefully I'll find out what wll really make me happy before my birthday. We'll if not, I'll still continue to live, most of the time sad, but I don't have a choice anyway.
9. I wish for more opps.
10. I wish that I will be able to make enough money to finally afford to move out of my parents place and still have a stable income to support that dream.


I am passing this to everyone in my blogroll.





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What if your ex says...

I got this very interesting tag from Vannie, as soon as I saw the title I got so intrigue already.. So here are my answers...This may sound very heartfelt, but true..

He says...Why did you let me go?
:::I didn't, you did. And if it appears to you that I did, it's maybe because I thought you are not worth it. I still don't know if I am right about that, sometime I still wonder what if I stuck with you.. but then again, i think it turned out better this way:::

He says...Can I win you back?
:::Oh yes, definitely, but be sure that you are 100% sure about that, and will take me and our daughter with all the responsiblities that come with it. For better or for worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health... So help me God! LOL!:::

He says...But I am very much happy with you back then.
::: Yes I know, I was too. To bad you chickened out, you could have experienced the wonderful feeling of being a dad to our daughter. You are missing a lot!:::

He says...I still love you.
:::Really? So why all this happened?! I've waited for years to hear that, and I thought I would say the same thing. But I'm just not sure anymore, I am happy now, we are happy now, me and your daughter, even if I do love you still, I am sad to say that I dont need you anymore!:::

He says...When did we last talk?
::: A year ago, when you first met your daughter, dont worry she doesn't remember you anymore and I intend to keep it that way:::

He says...Can you go out with me?
::: Yes, I'd love to, its nice to have a chat of what have you been up to all these years. I bet you are so busy with your life, too busy not to see our kid:::

He says...Hey,can i give you/ask for a ride?
::: No thank you, I am perfectly capable myself.:::


He says...Were you able to move on?
::: I am not sure, maybe not yet.. but I will. As I've said I am happy now, I still love you, but I am happy without you:::

He says...I regret losing you.
::: You should! I am the only good thing that ever happend to you. I am pretty sure you will not end up like a worthless scum bag as you are now if you didn't lose me. So could have finished your studies and be called an Architect, just like me. With a lot of confidence and self worth:::

He says...My parents do not like you.
::: I dont think so.. your father practically begged me to take you back in hopes that I can turn your life around, but you are really stubborn and self righteous:::

He says...You have changed.
::: ....Yes, I've changed a lot. So much that I dont even know who I have become, all because of the trauma you have caused me, but nevertheless grateful that you gave me the best gift you can ever give my daughter:::

I am tagging Enchie, Aeirin, Sherry, Jes, and Chris, Dhadha

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