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Sunday, June 22, 2008

Things to know about (Weakness)

Of course, if there are strenghts there will always be some weakness. These are some of it.


Weakness

1. She’s the only child at home and she is used to being treated as special. Because of this, she always wants attention. So please be patient in listening to her. Sometimes she gets bossy because she’s used to getting all the attention.
2. She’s not used to having other kids around, so she lacks social skills and wouldn’t interact much.
3. She use to converse in English, but because she’s more exposed to Tagalog being with the Yaya the whole day, she now talks in Tagalog more. Sometimes she also speaks in “Bisaya intonations”
4. She recites the ABC’s as M,M, O,O, P. I will be really grateful if you can correct it.
5. She usually forgets “rectangle”. But easily recognize the others.
6. She’s scared of cockroach.
7. She sometimes doesn’t tell if she needs to pee if she’s so preoccupied in playing.
8. Loud sounds scare her. You’ll usually know it’s too loud if she starts covering her ears.
9. She is not very patient. When she failed on her first try, she will think that she can’t do it anymore. Please encourage her to try again, and that it’s ok if she failed the first time. That she did very well in trying.
10. Please remind her that she doesn’t have diapers before going to sleep in the afternoon so that she knows that she have to wake up if she needs to pee. After waking up, she needs to go to the toilet immediately.
11. I’m a single mom and she doesn’t see her father at all. But she has “mommy”- me. “Mama”- lola, Papa – lolo, Nongnong- tito and Nangnang- tita we are her family. I will appreciate it if you don’t ask or mention about “daddy”. Or compare her to kids that have “fathers”.
12. She still drinks milk from the bottle before she goes to sleep, although she told me that she is not taking her milk anymore in school.

104 comments:

Jes said...

ahhh moest of your kids weakness are Ishi's weakness too!

Jes said...

no.1) she's not bossy already coz she has a brother now

Jes said...

bt she still seeks attention

Jes said...

no.2) she liks to be with kids but not with overcrowded kids, maybe 5 is the maxiimum

Jes said...

she doesnt like to attend/participate in parties pag madaming kids!

Jes said...

no.3) bisaya intonation is our problem too, because my mom whos taking are of them speaks with some wrong pronounciation

Jes said...

the E sound becomes I sound

Jes said...

im correcting my mom...always!!!

Jes said...

my ishi love to speak in english...

Jes said...

she was trying so hard

Jes said...

but the only words coming out from her mouth was " cho wye say you"....etc! she's like a chinese now

Jes said...

she can speak in english that is very common or the word she ussually hear

Jes said...

lines like: Oh no!, come here!, wait for me!, im sorry!, i love you, good night, god morning, etc

Jes said...

she can recites ABC too but she keeps on saying Y and Zey!!!!

Jes said...

my mom sang it incorrect once and un n agad ang natandaan ng babay ko!

Jes said...

i just taught Y...Z... no and and not zey!!!

Jes said...

no. 5 weakness) she does not know shapes in english, she only know tatsulok, parisukat, bilog at parihaba!

Jes said...

she knows circle is bilog but when you say triangle she will object "Hindi, tatsulok yan"

Jes said...

i still keep on sayying "pareho lng yan anak", but she's not listening

Jes said...

no. 6) she's not afraid of cockroach before, but when she saw me screaming becoz i saw a cockroach nagaya nya n din

Jes said...

nagaya nya lang sakin...=( kaya ayun pinapagalitan ako ng mister ko!

Jes said...

their father doesnt want them to be scared of anything

Jes said...

the problem with me is I am realy scared of cockroach!!! ew yckie!!!

Jes said...

no. 7)my ishi is like that too, when she is busy playing she tends to forget that she's naiihi na

Jes said...

and sometimes magsasbi pero naihi na habng naglalakad plng going t the banyo

Jes said...

no.8) YES ISHI also scared of loud sounds...

Jes said...

in school she'covering her ears when they were reciting/reading ng sabay sabay

Jes said...

she's saying " ang Ingay!!!!"

Jes said...

and sometimes she wants to go out from that room pag maingay na!

Jes said...

i stil dont know why...is it because i didnt expose them to a noisy area??

Jes said...

no.9) YES very impatient!!! She used to cry pa when she cant do a thing!!!

Jes said...

she mainitin ang ulo!!! nagwawala kapag di nagawa ang bagay na usto nyang gawins sana

Jes said...

we always says "kaya mo yan anak, ang galing galing mo nga eh" and she's sometimes continue what she's trying to do

Jes said...

my ISHI is not wearing diaper already when at home!

Jes said...

but she still need to have one kapag aalis esp kapag d p nakaka POoP!

Jes said...

coz thats her prob, she's not going to tel you thats she's making pOop n pla!

Jes said...

but if we leave na naka poop na sya pede ng walang diaper =)

Jes said...

pero ngyun ngyun nya lang natutunan yan...at nagsasabi n dn na poopopoo sya!

Jes said...

pero nung time na to..i mean nung june pa, ganyan pa sya noon!

Jes said...

sa pagtulog kaya nya nmn ng walng diaper pero d nmn sya nagigising sa madaling arw, ussually umaga na

Jes said...

then iiyak kasi naiihi...we have to buhat her to banyo hehehe

Jes said...

minsan naiihi pa dn sya sa bed sa umaga na pag tinatamad bumangon hehehe =)

Jes said...

no.11) yeah youre right she's not supposed to be compared with other kids

Jes said...

i hpe she can deal with it na kasi maalino nmn sya =)

Jes said...

no.12) oo nga pati si IShi ko nag mi milk p till now...ang takaw nga eh..

Jes said...

khit nde gabi, minsan yn ang breakfast n lunch nya =(

Jes said...

hindi ko nmn maawat kasi mapili sya sa pagkain and moody dn

Jes said...

she also tells me na, "dapat di na ko nagdedede sa bote d b mommy?"

Jes said...

i said "oo nga dapt sa baso na",

Jes said...

pag snabi kong" teka titimplhana kita sa baso ha"..

Jes said...

she will answer " wag na muna mommy, bukas nlng sa baso, sa bote muna" heheheh what a trick!

Jes said...

wow thats a lot!!! hahahha i think i can't say about my ishi ahaha! only weakness!

Jes said...

well, being playfull is also my IShi's strenght, hats all!! ahaha joke!

Jes said...

she'a also talkative ahaha and sometimes i can't make singit na!

Jes said...

same in school though she's not that talkative there, makulit nmn!

Jes said...

sorry for my comments ha! i dont know what to say to your lil JEA but she's really talented! and gifted!

Jes said...

this is my way of commenting, that why i chose posts that's related to me....

Jes said...

im not comparing them..just want to kwento my daughter din =)

Jes said...

about this no.4 strength, i really prefer too to talk her like adult too!

Jes said...

i hate baby talks!

Jes said...

youre lucky coz your kids love to do chores!

Jes said...

my daughter is independent in other things!

Jes said...

oh my ishi loves to sing and dance too!!! i love these talents! hope she can paint too like her dad

Jes said...

this is a good idea making a list for the teachers to help understand your kids

Jes said...

ahh what am i saying??/ sorry for the wrong grammars and words sometimes

Jes said...

my daughter knows how to write alphabets when you ask her to copy it but i dont think if she can recognize it already!

Jes said...

if she's not ready to memorize it yet, well then i will wait till she study nursery next year!

Jes said...

shapes...o yeah she knows it dn but in tagalog ehehe =)

Jes said...

animals and their sond is very easy for iSHI maybe becoz she loves animals!

Jes said...

my ISHI has fine motor skills t00!

Jes said...

wow!! she can operate laptop and play by her self already? i was thinking if ISHI can do that kaya?

Jes said...

thats amazing, a 3 year old using a laptop by herself?? hehehe =)

Jes said...

we dont wanna teach ISHI that ehhehe baka skung anu pa magawa nya ehhehe =)

Jes said...

but she can easily learn things lng nmn =) she's a good observer, eventhough you dont teach her, she can able to learn it by just watching you..

Jes said...

thats why i dont like her watching me opening the computer hehehe =)

Jes said...

she just know how to pause and play when we wer watching movies in out laptop =)

Jes said...

she just learn how to use the mouse nung pinaglaro ko sya sa computer =) bilis dn matuto grabe n mga kids ngyun!

Jes said...

wow!! she can already play puzzle? hehehe thats really reallt amazing!

Jes said...

my daughter ussually tells us, "mami, di ko n kaya tulungan mo ko!" then she'll cry kapa gumalaw ang puzle

Jes said...

wow!!! i will try that to my kid also, memory game huh!

Jes said...

kaso ang kamay ng anak ko grabe eh!!! parang amazona, nasisira ang keyboard ng laptop =(

Jes said...

kaya minsan ayaw ko syang maglaro sa LT

Jes said...

ahh yes jumping, rolling sometimes, climb and run was kids fav....im always geting nervous kapag ginagawa nila yan!

Jes said...

my ISHI loves to draw too! but she cant draw tao with full details yet, she can just draw a head with eyes, ears, nose and mouth, or sometimes with hair, then she'll put the kamay and paa sa ulo mismo ahaah!

Jes said...

kakatuwa mga kids no! sometimes im expecting ISHI to memorize the alphabets kasi yung tita nya 1 yr n 6 months palang namemorize and recognize nya n ang alphabets!

Jes said...

tpos ngyun naabasa ko mga strength ng baby mo parang tuloy bakit kaya si ISHI d p kaya ang mga yan?

Jes said...

i think its my fault coz im not teaching her kasi lagi! d ako masipag =(

Jes said...

body parts....ishi can recognize and tell what part of the body is that and this....when she started to talk at 1 yr of age

Jes said...

IShi loves to be praised too, i hate their teacher coz she's not doing that!

Jes said...

sometimes lang kapag cguro na perfect =(

Jes said...

she also knows how t count 1-10 since 2 pero nung nag aral na na confuse sa 11-20, nagiging 17 ang kasunod ng 6 heeh =)

Jes said...

and she sometimes doesnt know how to count objects, she just know the sunod sunod

Jes said...

ahahah lipstick!!! ahahah thats cute! just like my girl, she finished her test last week because i said santa will gve her a make up set!

Jes said...

she ussually not finishing her test, she always saying "pagod n ako eh!"

Jes said...

ahahah your lil girl is really smart! i like her!

Jes said...

AND SO CUTE TOO!

Jes said...

you are lucky sweety, for having such a gurl!

Jes said...

she really deserves that kitchen set and even more expensive than that! hehehe

Jes said...

like her own laptop =) hehehe

Jes said...

or a psp ahahha! joke! kids are techi n dn kasi eh!

Jes said...

i am not allowing my daughter to play with the computer yet saka n ag nag aaral n sya ng totoo

Jes said...

ahhh i am sick tlga... i had a very bad flu and fever!!! i think i had completed my comments already! =)

Jes said...

i will be back tom for my other set of comments =) thanks sweety! hope you apreciate my comments not just because of the traffic thing-y! =)

Jes said...

good day! and hope your not napagod sa kasal ng bro mo! =)