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Sunday, December 14, 2008

Im being too hard on her

Ok, I confess, I'm being to hard on my daughter. She is so smart and really advance both physically and intectually that I sometimes forget that she is only 3. She looks and thinks like 6yr old. Im so sorry, I realized it now, and I'm trying my best to clean up my act. I expect too much of her. There was even a time that I was expecting her not to wet the bed, only because I know she can do it. She is potty trained even before turning 2. She will tell me when she needs to pee, as long as she is awake. It was never hard for me to train her, she is just so smart. Infact she didn't even use a potty, she went straight to the toilet bowl, climbed it by herself. That's how she learned. There was a time, that she can also sleep all nighht, without wetting the bed. So I thought she can do that all the time. But I remembered she is just 3, and wetting the bed when asleep once in a while is normal. I should not expect too much of her. I am trying my best not to be angry everytime. She is such a sweet angel and she doesn't deserve how I treat her. I love her beyond the stars and is very sweet to her, but sometimes I slipped..sometimes I turn too a wicked mom, and shout at her. I know its bad, Im so sorry. Im really sorry. I love her so much, and it hurts me to remember times that I get to be angry at her.

Love you so much baby! I'm sorry, mommy will try her best to not do it again!


On a lighter note, I would like to share to you, Kids say the Darnest Things #5

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39 comments:

Sherry said...

she is well trained

Sherry said...

you did the right thing

Sherry said...

no saying sorry needed

Sherry said...

she know you want the best for her

Sherry said...

parents are like that

Sherry said...

even my dad will saving for me when I study

Sherry said...

maybe its your work that make you hard?

Sherry said...

sometime need take it easy

Sherry said...

not too easy too

Sherry said...

just need to know what you doing

Sherry said...

I think workload stress you

Sherry said...

You love her so much

Sherry said...

I could tell from you posts

Sherry said...

she means the whole world to you

Sherry said...

someday when she can read

Sherry said...

sure she want to read your blog

Sherry said...

sometimes I feel my parent too hard on me

Sherry said...

I think back its for my own good

Sherry said...

they want the best for children

Sherry said...

everyone got mistake

Sherry said...

we learn from mistake

Sherry said...

we avoid same mistake

Sherry said...

just be yourself

Jes said...

it's okay sweety, sometimes mom's are like that.... =(

Jes said...

sometimes you tend to forgot that you're getting too harsh on them..

Jes said...

sometimes you expect too much from your kids....

Jes said...

im also doing that sometimes!

Jes said...

maybe you're just tired from work =(

Jes said...

sometimes patience ay nauubos din =(

Jes said...

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Sherry said...

Jes is right patience

Jes said...

and sometimes if i have beaten them, i feel so sad and guilty!!!

Jes said...

im asking my self why i did that to them then im crying sometimes!

Jes said...

i hate to see my ids crying because of me =(

Jes said...

or because what i did to them -(

Jes said...

i hate myself sometimes for being so "madakdak" to them!

Jes said...

and sometimes i'm getting mad because they are so maingay!!!

Jes said...

im forgetting that their only kids...

Jes said...

ahhh how come i cant control my anger sometimes!!!